An ordinary girl

I am unlucky,You know that...

But I am lucky,I know that...

I lost my life & came to know what life is....

I value it & want live it up to my expectations...

I may not be the same again,never mind....

I am ready to face ups and downs in the roller-coaster ride known as 'life',

I don't need  your help ,to heal my wounds...
Just leave me the way I am...

'Stop hurting me any more'.

Your truly,

An ordinary girl with extraordinary love for you.

Invisible Mask!!!

I love myself for having so many nostalgic movements including the ones that left me bitter , this makes me realize I am just an ordinary soul full of emotions.I always thought myself as an human being with mask all the time so people around me can never try to decipher who I am.

But I never predicted people around me are also in the mask that prevented me from diagonalizing who they are.Their lives are filled with emotions & sickness that's making them collapse & prevent them from moving towards the future.

Today I gave a call to 'G',whom I have known from childhood.By the end of the call I realized all of us living in the world or much better trying to live in the world that's completely invisible to our human eye.I never thought of 'G' as a person who had emotions behind his witticism.Relations are so complex & we can never loose the charm of  'first-love',doesn't matter how hard we try.The words still echoes in my ears 'Somehow bring me out of this!!!!!'.

One thing that's positive about relations is they bring out the actual 'you' within yourself,the one you never imagined,the one you never thought,the one you never predicted and the one who you never are.There are some positive things about nostalgia , this tells us how precious other humans are & how unique you are from others.

I lost two of my close friends in the name of 'Love',one who left the world & the other whose just no more than zombie.The movement I lost them,I lost myself & the 'belief' I had in relationships.From the day I  never thought of any relationship other than family.When I meant family , I mean purely blood-relation.But today after speaking with 'G' I felt like there are so many unsaid & truly felt emotions behind every mask.

It's been years since I trusted in any men.I am avoiding them as much as possible,I couldn't imagine myself in Tanu's position.But guess I am wrong.I need to give a try.I need to enjoy each & every relation that humans are destined.

I am an ordinary soul who is always busy running from relations.....I am afraid I might be hurt....But today guess I am a bit changed.....I will start enjoying the life the way I deserve......I am proud of myself......I am one lucky girl to have things around me happening the way they should.....


P.S : It's spring-break from today!!!!!!!Hip-hip-hurray!!!
Lots of Love buddies.....

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Tricky Life

"The tricky thing about life is too often you don't know what's important until the moment passes."

Act against abuse

Established in 1991, the international 16 Days of Activism to Stop Violence Against Women campaign officially begins on November 25 (International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women) and ends on December 10 (World Human Rights Day), to highlight the connection between women, violence and human rights.

This 16-day period also includes other significant dates such as December 6, which marks the Anniversary of the Montreal Massacre. In 1989, fourteen women were shot dead in the Montreal School of Engineering by a young man, who believed it was because of female students that he was not accepted into the engineering school. This brutal act triggered the creation of the White Ribbon Campaign – a global initiative by Canadian men.

Since its establishment, more than 1,700 organisations in 130 countries have participated in the 16 Days campaign.

The white ribbon, according to the department, symbolises the commitment of the wearer to "never commit or condone violence against women and children, and to speak out about violence where they see it."

Positions

1. Violence against women and children is criminal.
2. All forms of violence and abuse against women are unacceptable
3. You are not alone, please ask for help.

In India if you are abused you can file petition under IPC 123,DVA(Domestic Violence Act) which comes under IPV(Intimate Partner Violence).
If the abuser is harassing you for Dowry you can file under 498A
There are several organization such as Women Cell and HRLN etc.. to help and uplift women in India.

P.S:If any of you are being abused,plz feel free to mail..I may not be the person in the same field,but as an Indian and Feminist ill  try my level best to give you the details of some persons who will surely help you.

Click the below link to check my friend/fellow-blogger's views on Domestic violence :
http://arealblogger.blogspot.com/2010/10/domestic-violence.html

You won yet you lost by Betraying....

'Ho sakhe toh mujhe maaf karoo' aarrgghhhhhhh!!I hate those wordss....

I wonder why do people always do this,no matter whether its a boy or girl.

Why do people say they love someone and make false promises,if they dont have the capability to keep the word.No matter whatever the lame excuse is,it would definitely leave the partner with a broken heart.

If you do have a problem with ur partner tell it the movement,the problem started.Why do u let the problem to bulge out.

If you don't love your partner at least respect them,with the due respect tell them the fact that you don't wanna be around them any longer..Instead why do u still continue to behave the same when she/he is around(ofc, im sure der will b slight difference in ur behaviour,attitude)and fool them by moving with others,when ur partner still blindly believes you are busy with work or jus got struck with some tight schedule so you couldn't show up..n still believes that u r truely,deeply n madly in love with them as they are with you..

And Im sure every person who is cheating will surely mention some reason.Even some might be soo hard to believe like 'she doesn't love me any more' or 'We thought its love but its jus infatuation' and all that crap.

But why dont you think these before you start a relation??

No matter what the reason is you cant justify them..

I am sure,If I have some supernatural power,I wil let them weep their entire lif..coz I strongly believe its worse to break a heart than to kill a person..

The simple solution is talk to your partner and solve the problem the movement it raises,Its not a big deal..you can share your problem with ur once-upon-a-time soul mate..After all in the past its she with whom u shared everything..At least give her a chance to decide her life..Atleast do it jus as a human-being.

"Think a million times before proposing or accepting a proposal,its not a mistake.But don't let the thought creep into your brain after committed,its a mortal sin"

P.S:I Got a forwarded msg which is so aptly true for all such cases..Heres the msg:

"You hurted me more than I deserved,its coz I loved you more than you deserved'

P.P.S:The dialogue in the first line is from the serial 'karam apna apna'.
So readers plz don't misinterpret it as incident from my life.